Vida The Podcast
Welcome to the Vida podcast with your hosts Rebecca Espinoza & Shay Frago! Vida gives a voice to the voiceless. We’re giving you a taste of conversations and perspectives meant to expand your mind, open your heart, and ignite your soul. As multicultural women, we believe that everyone deserves equal access to information and resources that can elevate your experience as a human being. We have honest conversations with each other along with diverse leaders, teachers, healers, and creatives from all walks of life to discuss topics ranging from relationships, business, spirituality, and so much more. Regardless of your cultural background, socioeconomic status, or childhood upbringing, there’s a space and a voice for you here. Thanks for joining us we as navigate this vida together!
Vida The Podcast
49. Is Chemistry in an Incompatible Romantic Relationship Creating Confusion?
When you feel chemistry with another person, it's an undeniable magnetism. However, chemistry is not compatibility. When we get caught up in the chemistry when compatibility isn't present, we can end up in relationships that can keep us in constant loops of choices that might not be the best for us or the relationship. In this solo episode, Rebecca shares the lessons that came with getting caught up in the chemistry of relationships and the growth moments that were born from it. She shares insight on how to discern between chemistry and compatibility and an actional step you can start taking to know the kind of compatible partner you desire.
This episode explores:
- The maiden archetype focuses on the chemistry in a relationship.
- The difficulty to leave a relationship when chemistry is present but compatability isn't.
- Safety in a relationship as a bare minimum.
- Choosing to embrace a narrative from a relationship that can provide growth rather than a victim's perspective.
- Relationships ending when two people don't evolve at the same pace.
- Getting clear on what your bare minimums, non-negotiables, and cherry on tops in a relationship.
- Asking, "How does this relationship make me feel in my body?"
- Finding a balance between the "feeling" of a relationship and the practicality of it.
- Making a list that actually matters when looking for a partner.
- Chemistry naturally builds when compatibility is present.
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