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42. Taking The Steps to Stop Hating Men and Start Trusting Them Again.

May 23, 2024 • Rebecca Espinoza & Shay Frago • Season 3 • Episode 18

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We won't ignore the obvious--women (and the world) have suffered at the hands of men. Or has it truly been the patriarchy? Here at Vida, we love men. Rebecca and Shay get into yet another potentially controversial conversation. It doesn't serve women or society anymore to man-hate. The more we bring men down, the more of a disservice we do to the evolution of humanity and our relationship dynamics with men. Rebecca and Shay share their personal journeys on healing their relationships with men and how other women can do the same. We need men in our lives and in our world. If you don't believe that, then this episode is definitely for you.

This episode explores:

-Acknowledging the projections you hold on men that generalize all men.

-How the relationship you had/have with your father influences your experiences with men (Rebecca & Shay share their own stories on this).

-The generational perspectives about men that are passed down in lineages.

-Taking personal responsibility in the role you play in "unhealthy" romantic relationships.

-The importance of speaking your truth in relationships, regardless if someone chooses to stay or leave.

-The varying perspectives on men based on different cultures.

-Society's perspectives on men from women's POV.

-The benefits of having positive relationships with men.

-The power of letting men provide for you when they want to give.

-Learning how to acknowledge men for all they do.

-The way Rebecca and Shay celebrate men.